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Wikipedia describes extra marital relationships as relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs.
We all crave & love, then why do we engage in extra marital affairs? According to Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist ,”love is not really an emotion but more of a brain system. When it comes to love, we have three brain systems - first is the sex drive, second romantic love and third, partner attachment. And the brain architecture works in a manner that while being attached to one partner, we can feel intense love for another and sex drive for even more partners.

 Affairs can be broadly divided into these categories-
Pure lust
This is the most common among all types of affair. The couple are in it only for sex as it makes them feel sexually liberated in a secret affair. They have no plans to leave their present partners but they enjoy the passion in bed.
Emotional affairs
While the two don't engage in a physical relationship, they are deeply entwined in each other's minds. They are constantly flirting, exchanging messages, and sharing intimate details.
Revenge affairs

These ones are triggered primarily because of resentment towards the current partner. This affair happens because the partner wants to get even with his/her spouse. They might have discovered their partner’s infidelity or are deranged by their partner's indifference.

Delusional affairs

These are imagined affairs. You mistake someone’s friendliness for attention and  interest and worse, liking or love.

Body and soul affairs
These are the serious ones of all. It involves sex, emotional dependence and feeling complete in each other’s company. Both see each other as soul mates. This kind of affair is capable of wrecking marriages, simply because the relationships feel so right.  Relationship expert and tarot card reader, Madhu Kotya explains, "There are a very small percentage of body and soul affairs. It's more spiritual than physical and emotional. They feel the need to constantly feel each other and separation pains them immensely. This is the kind of affair that leads to divorces and remarriages."
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